What to do if you feel left out ?

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DISCLAIMER: This article is not meant for demeaning or defaming anyone especially to whom I met with.

Many a times, you want to be part of amazing people because of any reason like they are ambitious, having good sense of humour or very high maturity. But you seem to observe that friends you made with those “amazing people” doesn’t prioritise or value you enough. Even these kind of “events” I faced. It mattered less in school days, but it started to affect me more in my college and corporate life as well. Few of the friends started to observe that “nobody cares for me” or “he doesn’t have friends” but that’s not entirely true but that fact that the some people I valued or admired didn’t admire me back enough seemed to be true.

I also started introspecting this from the college days until this date and realised the very first point that I didn’t value myself enough. If I don’t value myself enough, how will people value me!. That is absolutely true. Apart from that I started valuing wrong people. Like in school, I valued a girl just because she is good at academics. Also, I was too young at that time to realise the fact that choosing people based on…